In the Name of the Father and of the X Son and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.

 

Grace and Peace to you from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ and may our Lord and Savior sanctify you in the truth, for His word is truth. Amen

 

Twelfth Sunday after Pentecost (2011)      

 

Leading Little Ones away from Sin                                                                     Rev. Toby Byrd

 

Matthew 18:1-6 (ESV) 

    At that time the disciples came to Jesus, saying, "Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?"  [2] And calling to him a child, he put him in the midst of them [3] and said, "Truly, I say to you, unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.  [4] Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.

    [5] "Whoever receives one such child in my name receives me,  [6] but whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a great millstone fastened around his neck and to be drowned in the depth of the sea.

 

Solomon wrote, “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it” (Proverbs 22:6 ESV). I thought this instruction from our Lord was very apropos considering we here at Grace have just begun a new two-year children’s catechism class. When we listen to our Lord in today’s Gospel Reading and when we are reminded of the words of Solomon, then it is proper for us to consider that the Christian training of children is of the highest importance for parents. Such training concerns the temporal, spiritual, and eternal welfare of the child, the happiness of the home, the best interests of the Church, and the security of the nation. Such training leads little ones to Jesus and away from sin.

 

It is well to bear in mind that children belong to the Lord. Our children are not a product of evolution, they are creatures of God. “Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward” (Psalm 127:3 ESV). Besides creating children, God has redeemed them from sin, death, and the devil at a tremendous cost to Himself; the sacrificial death of His only-begotten Son on the Altar of the Cross. Furthermore, God has made provisions to sanctify all children. Oh you may have brought your son or daughter into the world, but that child belongs to God in every sense of the word. Therefore, His will concerning that child must be respected.

 

God wants children to be trained in His ways and He has revealed, in Scripture, how we are to do this. Although God is not visibly present to take charge of the training, He is ever invisibly and actively present, where such training is properly done. God has chosen others, human beings, to do the work in His name and stead, and He has adequately equipped them for the task and has promised them His blessings.

 

To begin with, these instructions concerning the training of our children are not given to the State. Even our country’s Constitution recognizes this fact. There are those today within the boundaries of our country who insist that every child should be a ward of the State. As well-meaning as these people may be, their philosophy is a real menace to the welfare of the Church, the nation, and the family.

 

Remember, it is a religious education, Christian training that God demands for the child. God has given other specific duties to the State. He has given the State the power of the sword, that is, the power to make laws, to enforce laws, to punish evildoers, and to engage in just wars for the protection of its citizens—all of course within His prescribed bounds. The State may, of course, in considering the welfare of its people and the future of the country, demand a minimum scholastic, secular education for the children of its citizens, but God’s demand to provide a Christian education is given to parents, not the State. However, over the objection of its citizens, we see this order of authority routinely usurped by legislators every year. Through hate crime legislation and equal protection clause ideologies, the State has implemented a continual assault upon the doctrinal teachings of the Church. Liberal progressives demand a separation of Church and State when laws benefit Christians, yet they embrace all laws which require the State to teach contrary to the Church, and thus offend Christians.

 

God’s instructions concerning the training of children are given to parents; primarily to fathers. Nothing is more clearly taught in Scripture. St. Paul tells us, “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord” (Eph. 6:4 ESV). What God said to the fathers of old, He says to fathers today: “And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise” (Deut. 6:6-7 ESV). Therefore, God has decreed that parents are to impart to their children the knowledge which is required and the training that is demanded to make of them good children, good Christians, good church members, good citizens, and good neighbors. Parents should be mindful that this is their sacred obligation to their children.

 

For the most part, Christian parents feel inadequate to the task, but they will not leave the work undone. Instead, they will make the necessary provisions for the training of their children that meet God’s requirements. They will choose Christian teachers, such as those who labor in our Christian day schools and Sunday schools, to assist them. However, this does not release Christian parents from the personal responsibility of training their children. They will co-operate with those to whom they have entrusted their children and they will constantly supervise their children’s training.

 

These words are also addressed to the Church and to the ministry of the Church. Besides adults, there are also children in the Church. Our Lord Jesus says, to such belongs the kingdom of heaven” (Matthew 19:14 ESV). Moreover, the Lord emphatically charges His Church in general and every Christian congregation in particular with the duty of teaching the Word and will of God not only to the adults but to the children as well. Our Lord tells us regarding the children within the congregation, “Feed, my lambs” (John 21:15 ESV) and with respect to those outside the Church: “make disciples of all nations, baptizing them . . . . teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you” (Matthew 28:19 ESV). Thus it is clear from these words that God wants the Church, every congregation, to be engaged in child-training activities, not merely because the parents, perhaps because of the lack of time or ability, cannot provide for the necessary training of their children, but because, parents or no parents, the Church as Church has a sacred obligation in this direction.

 

This brings us to a point which is often overlooked. Congregations are composed of individual members. Not only those members of the congregation who themselves have children, but every member of the congregation, whether they have children to train or not, is, by virtue of their church membership duty bound to take a living and lifelong interest in such child-training activities of which their congregation can establish and maintain; be it a day school, Sunday school, catechumen classes or other venues. Thus it can be seen that God’s instruction as revealed through Solomon concerning the training of children are given first to parents, then also to the Church, and more specifically to every local Christian congregation.

 

“Train up a child in the way he should go.” God has created the map which shows the way for all men to follow Him: that is the Christian way. This is the way to the Father through Christ. It is the way of faith in Christ, the way of love and loyal service to Christ and to our fellow man.

 

In order that men walk in this way, God insists that they be trained. The fear of the Lord and the knowledge of His Word must be firmly implanted in their hearts and minds so that their desires, thoughts, words, and deeds are influenced, molded, and governed by this training. God wants men to know their duty to Him, to their superiors, to the Church, to the State, and to society so sufficiently well that they may do His will intelligently. He wants them so trained in the performance of these duties that they will do them habitually and with pleasure. Thus training a child in the way of God is training the child to walk a godly life on earth, always looking to Jesus as the center and focus of life. All their doings in life are to center on Jesus Christ and His sacrificial, atoning death on the Cross. This is the way clearly revealed in Scripture.

 

However, experience teaches us that those who would walk in this way are those who have been trained for it since childhood. We are told, “As the tree is bent, so the tree is inclined.” This rule is laid down in the Bible and supported by human experience. There are exceptions, we know. There are men and women walking in the narrow way who had no Christian training in their childhood, and there are those walking the broad way that leads to destruction who were raised in a Christian home even attended Christian day school. However, the rule still holds. “Train up a child,” says the Lord. We had better heed these words.

 

To train, as the Lord means training, is to catechize and lead. Such training imposes real effort, both on the part of the child, the teacher, and the parents. Knowledge must be imparted; skills acquired; habits formed; attitudes developed. This requires a protracted and careful instruction by precept and example. Such training requires patience. The training of children often is a slow and difficult process. God, however, can conquer the child’s heart and will, while blessing our efforts if we are patient. Training requires strength, more strength than we posses by nature. God will accord us the necessary endurance to carry on in the work, provided we ask for it in confident prayer. He has promised, and His is faithful.

 

Our Lord commands us to “Train up a child in the way he should go.” Thus this command is not to be considered idly, because, to ignore this instruction from God has serious consequence, which brings us to the Gospel Reading for today.

 

The apostles had been arguing among themselves, trying to settle which of them was the greatest. Their argument is the result of pride, love of glory, and ignorance of the spiritual nature of the Kingdom of God. Unable to settle the question among themselves, they turn to Jesus for an answer, asking, Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?” (v. 1).  What foolishness. Filled with false pride, the apostle did not see that their answer lay not in glorifying themselves, but in repentance for their self-righteousness.

 

To overcome the disciples feeling of superiority, our Lord places a child in their midst and tells them they must become like children if they are to enter the kingdom of heaven (v. 3).They must return to the gentle submissiveness of a child, they must assume truly childlike minds. The point of comparison is not innocence, but honesty, the total absence of arrogance and the presence of simplicity and humility. These are the distinguishing traits of a child. The smaller we grow in our own estimation, the greater we become in the sight of God. The mark of true greatness before God consists in that humility of spirit, which excludes every vestige of selfishness and pride.

 

To illustrate just high highly our Lord esteems the childlike spirit, He turns to the apostles and says, “Whoever receives one such child in my name receives me, but whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a great millstone fastened around his neck and to be drowned in the depth of the sea” (vv. 5-6).

 

Regardless of the faulty reason of men, our Lord makes it clear; faith may be received by children. Thus our Savior shows just how terrible it is to lead a child or a believer—a soul endowed with the humble spirit of a child—away from the path of faith. Therefore, if one is guilty of putting obstacles in the path of a child so they may not learn the way and will of God, they are guilty of hindering that child from coming to God or putting their faith at risk. Doing so is committing a sin so grievous that it would be better to have ones life end in violence than to commit a sin so awful that it requires the forfeiture of their eternal life. It demands an eternal death that requires their soul to be drawn into the abyss of eternal damnation. Thus when our Lord commands us to “Train up a child in the way he should go” He is telling us to receive that child for His sake, because by receiving the child, we are receiving Jesus.

 

Our Lord Jesus came to save all sinners, this includes children. What a sin it is to separate the children from the salvation which Jesus has come to bring! Thank God that He gave you parents who understood His command to leads you to Jesus and away from sin. Amen.

 

May the peace of God, which passes all understanding, keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. Amen.