Grace and Peace to you from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ and may our Lord and Savior sanctify you in the truth, for His word is truth. Amen

 

Sixth Sunday of Easter (2009)

 

Abiding in the Love of Jesus                                                 Rev. Toby Byrd

 

John 15:9-17 (ESV) 

As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love.   [10] If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father's commandments and abide in his love.  [11] These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full.

    [12] "This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.  [13] Greater love has no one than this, that someone lays down his life for his friends.  [14] You are my friends if you do what I command you.  [15] No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you.  [16] You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit and that your fruit should abide, so that whatever you ask the Father in my name, he may give it to you.  [17] These things I command you, so that you will love one another.

 

The Greek language of the Bible has three words to describe love; ajgavph (agape’), filevw (phileo), and ejravw (erao). The first two, ajgavph (agape’) and filevw (phileo), describe love that is affectionate, personal, and deliberate; such as the love of a parent for their children. The last one, ejravw, is sensual love, a love that emanates from desire or yearning. In today’s Gospel Reading the apostle John uses the Greek word ajgavph to describe the love of Jesus. When Jesus says; “As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love” (v. 9) the word He uses is ajgavph (agape’). Thus, our Lord Jesus is saying His love for us is a personal, affectionate, and deliberate love. A love that desires nothing but the very best for each one of us; a love that says you are mine.

 

Jesus’ love for His disciples is exactly the same type of love as His Father’s love for Him. In His comments, Jesus is speaking of the Father’s love for Him as the Incarnate Son. God attests to this love when, at Jesus’ baptism, He says, “This is my beloved Son, with whom I am well pleased” (Matt. 3:17 ESV). Here, the heavenly Father’s expresses His love for Jesus in His comment that He is well pleased with His Son. Pleased, because as an obedient Son, Jesus is fulfilling the will of His Father. On the other hand, Jesus’ love for His Father is shown through His obedience, through doing the will of His Father perfectly. Here we get a glimpse at true divine love; Jesus and His heavenly Father are one, their wills are perfectly melded. Jesus always abides in His Father and His Father in Him. Moreover, Jesus tells His disciples, and thus us, that we can also be one with Him and with the Father if we abide in His love. Abiding in the love of Jesus, this is the hope of many, but how can we do this? Let us then, with the help of the Holy Spirit, explore what Jesus means when He says; “Abide in my love.”

 

Immediately after telling His disciples to “Abide in my love”, Jesus says, “If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father's commandments and abide in his love” (v. 10). Pretty straight forward explanation, “If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love”.

 

Now, this is not the first time that Jesus has told His disciples that they will show their love for Him by keeping His commandments. Just prior to His promise of sending the Holy Spirit, Jesus said: “If you love me, you will keep my commandments” (John 14:15 ESV). Then, after promising to send the Spirit, Jesus said: “Whoever has my commandments and keeps them he it is who loves me. And he who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I will love him and manifest myself to him” (John 14:21 ESV). Moreover, Jesus said, “If anyone loves me, he will keep my word, and my Father will love him, and we will come to him and make our home with him. Whoever does not love me does not keep my words. And the word that you hear is not mine but the Father's who sent me” (John 14:23-24 ESV). Sounds like there is a lot of obedience expected here! Jesus is emphatic; we are to keep His commandments and His Word if we are to abide in His love. But wait a minute pastor, Jesus wasn’t a law giver, He didn’t’ give us any commandments.

 

You may have heard it said that there aren’t any commandments in the New Testament; Jesus did away with the commandments when He died on the Calvary’s Cross. However, in our text for today Jesus is clearly telling His disciples that He will know that they love Him if they keep His commandments. Moreover, He explicitly describes that commandment when He says, “This is my commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you” (v. 12). Jesus commands us to love one another because, as the apostle Paul says; “Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things” (1 Cor. 13:7 ESV). Love is the sweetest fruit of faith.

 

On His last evening with the disciples, Jesus told them, “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another” (John 13:34-35 ESV). In this new commandment our Lord provides us with a better understanding of how we as Christians are to live our lives in Christ. When the Pharisee’s questioned Jesus, asking Him which was the greatest commandment Jesus said, “‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself” (Matt. 22:37-39 ESV). Here, our Lord reiterates the Word of our heavenly Father said through Moses, “You shall not take vengeance or bear a grudge against any of your own people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself: (Lev. 19:18 ESV).

 

Love of neighbor is an all encompassing term. It reaches out to everyone, even to our enemies. Our Lord Jesus brought a new love into the world, a love that is not only faultless and perfect but one that is intelligently bent on the salvation of the object of His love; you and me. Thus, it is a new commandment, one that brings to believers a new understanding of how we are to live in relationship with each other. The disciples intimately knew the experience of Jesus’ love. Now, since He would be leaving them, they were commanded to carry on His love by loving each other and taking that love to the world so that all mankind could love as Jesus loved them. Moreover, our Savior’s love is a redeeming love; a love that destroys sin, death, and the devil while offering eternal salvation to all who abide in Him. Therefore, as His disciples, you and I are to love all mankind with a love that always has their best interest at heart. It is a love that is expressed through the proclamation of the Gospel of the forgiveness of sins in the name of our Lord, Jesus Christ. It is a love that is manifested in our caring for the lives of others; caring for their eternal salvation and caring for their earthly welfare. It is a love that emulates the love of Jesus, a selfless, humble, life-giving love. It is a love that is quick to forgive, a love that seeks no vengeance, and a love that requires no penitence. It is a love based solely on the all-forgiving, all-loving attributes of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. This is a love that fulfills both the first and second greatest commandments.

 

In the world there are all types of love, but by far, the most intense is the love of family. Our love for our spouse, our parents, our children, or our biological brother or sister is a special kind of love; one that is not shared with those outside the family. Thus, family is special and that’s why it is such a marvelous word, it carries such warm and loving connotations, and this is exactly what each of us here this morning belong to, the same family, the family of believers in Jesus Christ. As Christians we are eternal brothers and sisters, members of the body of Christ. We all share in and abide in the love of the Father and the Son forever. As such, we are to always strive to support each other by encouraging one another to come to a better understanding of Jesus’ love for us through a better understanding of His revealed Word in Holy Scripture, and by seeking His forgiveness through prayer, intercessions, and the Sacraments of Baptism and the Lord’s Supper. Moreover, such special love is the love of a Christian for all mankind. We are driven by our love for Christ and His love for us to invite the world into our family. That is why when our invitation is rebuffed, we grieve because we do not want to lose one single soul to Satan, and this is the nature of all who do not abide in the love of Christ. The focus of our love toward our neighbor is for them to know the love of Christ, to believe in the forgiveness of sins, and to relish in the promise of eternal life with our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

 

However, as happens from time to time within families, some Christians get angry at other Christians within their congregation over the silliest things. Now, I’m not talking about a righteous anger over the teaching of heresy or that which stems from the revelation that one who was trusted turns out to be a hypocrite. Nor am I talking about the anger that stems from one who is unwilling to repent of their sin, because our Lord provides us with clear instructions in how to deal with such sins. However, I am talking about anger that is driven by pride or selfishness. Such as getting angry because your child isn’t the lead singer in choir; or getting angry because your name wasn’t mentioned in the credits for something; or getting angry because someone within the congregation did or didn’t do something you thought needed to be done; or getting angry because the pastor makes a human mistake from the pulpit. Before you know it, in a huff, these angry people leave the church, hopping to another one in the community. Many times people such as these become nothing more than church-hoppers. It doesn’t matter where they are, eventually they will find something to get angry about. They cannot control themselves, they cannot stop their anger, and they cannot maintain lasting friendships. These they cannot do because they are not Abiding in the Love of Jesus.  Moreover, without such love, they cannot function in a family that is built, solely on The Love of Christ and they become outcasts.

 

Our Lord, Jesus told His disciples, “By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another” (John 13:35 ESV). Therefore, love each other, for the world is looking on! Lay your anger aside; suppress your pride, and tame your ego. If you must rebuke, rebuke the erring brother in a loving way, with one purpose in mind, to bring them back to Christ in repentance so they can receive the Lord’s absolution.

 

Love, the type Jesus brought to the world, is always constructive, building up those who are loved. If a Christian brother or sister stumbles and falls, we don’t revel in their sin saying, “Aha, their getting just what they deserve!” These fallen, family members of the Body of Christ are not heretics, disavowing God and the Gospel. No, they are nothing more than sinners; just like you and I. Each of us are all guilty of sin and but for our heavenly Father who sent His Son to rescue us from the clutches of hell, we would all be lost. Therefore, we also, like our heavenly Father, should reach out our hand to pick up these fallen brothers and sisters from the ditch of sin, dust them off, and give them aide toward healing their pain with the loving, soothing words of the Gospel. True love, as expressed by Jesus in today’s Gospel, is a love that says, “Regardless of their actions, they will always be my children and I will do everything I can to help them, to heal them, and to lead them away from the harm they would do themselves.” This is the love that Christians have for each other. A love that says, “Greater love has no one than this, that someone lays down his life for his friends” (v. 13).

 

In verse 16 of today’s Gospel, Jesus reminds us that we did not choose Him but He chose us. How truly fortunate we are, for is there any doubt that we were undeserving of His choice? There’s nothing we have done or ever will do that can earn His choosing us. Just as there is nothing we have ever done or ever will do that deserved His dying on Calvary’s Cross for the forgiveness of our sins and the reconciliation He obtained for us with His heavenly Father by His sacrificial death. However, this is exactly what Jesus did for us. His love for us was so great that He willing went to His death so that we might live. He willing suffered on the altar of the cross so that we wouldn’t have to suffer in the eternal fires of hell. How does one describe such love? Listen to the voice of St. John, “And this is love, that we walk according to his commandments” (2 John 1:5-6 ESV). Walking with God in all things through our obedience to His Will, this is the love St. John is referring to.

 

Our Lord Jesus makes it clear, “You are my friends if you do what I command you” and “These things I command you, so that you will love one another” (vv. 14, 17). How do we know that we are Abiding in the Love of Jesus, we know if we love one another. Amen.

 

May the Peace of God which passeth all understanding keep your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. Amen.